The Real Problem with the Dr. Mike COVID Boat Party and Apology

when the covet 19 pandemic started to flare up in the united states i started to freak out a little bit i have a generalized anxiety disorder and like many other people i was constantly refreshing social media and news websites for updates thankfully i had dr mike unfortunately he recently had to apologize for being caught partying during the largest coveted spike of the year for those of you who don’t know doctor mike is a doctor with almost 6.5 million subscribers on youtube i first started watching him because he had some great takes on mental health but when the pandemic started he became my most trusted source there was so much conflicting information going around about whether we should or shouldn’t wear masks and how bad this pandemic would get and dr mike always had a level-headed approach to the conversation he explained how we need to adapt as new data comes out and we may need to change how we protect ourselves from catching and spreading kovid19 i learned a ton in the early days of the pandemic because of doctorr mike but most of all he beat into all of our heads to stay alert and not anxious at the time of writing this it’s the end of november and we’re consistently breaking records of covid cases this is during the holiday season when many people have decided to stay home for the first time in years rather than seeing their family for thanksgiving meanwhile dr mike went to one of the coveted capitals of the country florida to visit his father but this wasn’t the whole issue the issue was that he attended a party on a boat and someone took a picture of him and over a dozen other people in close proximity without masks after getting caught he made an apology video on his second channel which only has 58 000 subscribers compared to his main channels 6 million not only was the apology riddled with flawed logic and self-justification but now the opposition to covet guidelines now have more ammunition while i don’t think doctor mike should be canceled over this incident i do think it’s important that we have a rational conversation about what he did why his apology missed the mark and where we go from here but before we get started if you’re new to the rewired soul make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell here we use critical thinking and practice skepticism to better understand what’s going on in the world and make sure you’re following me over on twitter and instagram at the rewired soul because i have a lot of cool announcements coming really soon as someone who has personally had the internet come after him for mistakes i know that public apologies are hard to navigate as a public figure you’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t the worst part about making a public apology is that people are going to pick it apart and explain what was wrong with it as someone who is also a recovering drug addict something that i personally learned eight years ago when i got sober is some people will accept your apology and some people won’t with that being said my intention is not to invalidate dr mike’s apology and pick it apart as others are doing my goal is to break down the flawed decision- making and self-justification that brought us to this point why in the great words of otto von bismarck only a fool learns from his own mistakes the wise man learns from the mistakes of others this year i’ve become fascinated with the psychology of decision making and have read some amazing books like how to decide by annie duke and the art of thinking clearly by ralph dabelli and something i’ve learned is that assessing risk is crucial to making good decisions which is why i loved risk savvy by gerd gigarenzer in his apology dr mike discusses how he assessed the risks of traveling to florida to visit his father and then he assessed the risk of having this boat party mike checked in with the cdc guidelines for how many people should be on a boat and he also said that everyone who attended had been tested based on the fact that dr mike is young and healthy and was following guidelines after assessing the risk he figured attending this boat party wasn’t a bad idea unfortunately there were some flaws with his assessment of the risk while some people are pointing out that the florida boat occupancy guidelines are only 10 people max but you can clearly see more than 10 people in the photo i want to discuss how mike assessed his personal risk yes dr mike is young and healthy so he’s at low risk of severe covet complications if he contracts the virus the issue is that mike’s self-justification for attending this boat party created cognitive dissonance the distance made him disregard the fact that he taught me and millions of other people which is that it’s not about my personal risk it’s about the risk that i may infect others regardless of mike’s personal age and health if he catches the virus he puts everyone at risk that he comes in contact with as he mentioned he was visiting his father and older people are at a high risk not only that but he also puts people he passes on the street at risk the people he passes in the airport on the way home the people on the airplane the people at the airport back home as well as those he comes in contact with back in new york now dr mike did say that everyone who attended was tested but that’s still not looking at the bigger picture when assessing the risk dr mike has been one of the leading voices on the coven pandemic throughout the year so aside from potentially spreading the virus the biggest risk is getting caught by getting caught not only does he set a bad example to his followers but he gives anti-masters more ammunition and in my opinion that should have been the main point of the risk assessment recently a wealthy friend of mine had a gathering with a couple dozen people fortunately he and those who attended are like dr mike and could afford rapid tests for everyone in attendance even though they did rapid testing i still gave my friend a little bit of flack for having this get together in the first place but one place where i’ll applaud him is that the attendees took into consideration something that dr mike didn’t which is photos and my friends get get-together he knew that him and others are influential so even though they were participating in risky behavior they ensured it wouldn’t go public at this gathering no photos were allowed meanwhile dr mike physically posed for photos knowing his influence and the fact that he has an audience of millions so although i respect dr mike’s apology i don’t think he assessed the risk as well as he thinks he did lastly one of his justifications for this gathering was that this year has taken a mental toll on everyone being in isolation and i think this comment from his apology video summarizes how many of us are feeling about his justification the comment reads i live in melbourne we were in lockdown for over a hundred days i live in a tiny apartment on my own and was only allowed to leave for one hour a day to get essential supplies and exercise i haven’t seen my family in over a year i know so many others have made far greater sacrifices especially essential workers but it has still been extremely hard it makes it very difficult to sympathize with dr mike’s decision to go on a boat party really really disappointed as mentioned earlier no i don’t think dr mike should be cancered but i do think it’s important to discuss the situation as a whole not only do we need to pay attention to who we hold up on a pedestal due to their ranking on the social ladder but we also need to realize that people are fallible and we all make mistakes in a recent johns hopkins study it showed that more than 250 000 people die each year in the united states alone due to medical errors in his book black box thinking matthew syed explains why this happened and how the medical field doesn’t have a self-correcting model to really help decrease these numbers but i bring this up to showcase the fact that even doctors make mistakes and dr mike did a ted talk where he discussed the need for intellectual humility my concern isn’t so much that dr mike was caught but more of the issue that we see with the wealthy and the upper class i respect dr mike a ton but i do worry he’s gone down the same path as dr drew dr drew pinsky is a famous doctor who did one of the only studies on celebrity narcissism but after reading his book the mirror effect i couldn’t help but think but dr drew you showcase a lot of the same behaviors as these narcissistic celebrities although i hope it’s not the case dr mike may be sliding into the do as i say and not as i do category of doctors but i also wonder if his friends are going to cover this story like dr mike i started watching the independent news channel philip defranco because i could get away from the extremely partisan views of mainstream media when phil covers a story where there may be a conflict of interest he makes that very clear now i’m curious to see if phil covers this story because he and dr mike are friends over the last year or two i’ve noticed phil changing a little so i really hope he maintains his integrity by discussing this story even though it may shed a negative light on his friend above all else the most disappointing part of this whole scenario is that the anti- masters and covet deniers are going to use this as ammunition people like q and on and those who politicize science on the right are going to have a field day with this and that’s not going to help slow down the pandemic when assessing the risk this should have been a key factor in dr mike’s decision making due to his influence but that’s not what happened although the vaccine is on the horizon hospitals are at capacity as the coveted numbers spike and we need to do our best to decrease the spread in the coming months while also setting a good example for others all right everybody i hope you enjoyed this quick little video essay and like i said like i said like something i realized a long time ago is that a lot of people are just gonna pick apart apologies and say what you should and shouldn’t have done and that’s not my intention at all like i said i have been absolutely fascinated with the psychology behind decision making all of us all of us me you dr mike everybody we all make terrible decisions on a regular basis hell i’m a recovering drug addict for nearly a decade i made nothing but terrible decisions so i think it’s important that we all learn how to make better decisions how to evaluate risk a little bit better and you know it’s not just like with these huge huge things it’s like in our day-to-day life we make thousands and thousands of decisions every single day and week right so i think it’s important that we make better decisions and we learn how to do that by recognizing our own biases and our self-justifications and all that so i think it’s good to use this as a learning experience and by 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