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Unreal Engine 4.26. Alembic Hair. Q&A Part 3. Official answers from the community.
Hello everyone! With you - Andrey Krivulya Charly And this is the third part of the official responses from Epic Games Regarding “Alembic Hair” and “Grooming Plugin” in “Unreal Engine 4”. In this video - we will talk about how to: Dye the hair bundles and their ends in different colors - in Ornatrix. Import this into “Unreal Engine 4”. Fix “alembic scripts” error for “Xgen” hair export.
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Cocoon Foresta Incantata
Hello everyone in this new tutorial I will show how to make this cocoon with long sleeves that I have decided to call enchanted forest as regards the yarn I have decided to use that ella miss tricot yarns look at that ball of yarn is called picasso and is made up of 43 percent wool merinos 35 percent microfiber pc 22 percent polyamide each elbow and from 150 grams it measures 192 meters the color I chose and the 0 2 and here are these shades that you look at are amazing reminiscent a little of the colors of Brazil but also that of the woods and of the forests and that’s why I decided to call the enchanted forest cocoon with regard to this with which it is a size s I used three of these balls but in the last one it had advanced a lot so that I decided that I will use it for make a neck warmer perhaps combining it with another yarn and I was thinking about the cin ci there at the lux that there is a color that in these same shades so maybe mine the two pirates i then the inscriptions I will leave the link to be able to buy via the same pilate also in other colors which is the link of the site hooking with strings there are also other colors they have bored us of the sky shaded by blues the shades of gray so the in total are six colors on one more beautiful than the other and I recommend, however, the size m according to while balls may be enough because in any case the cocoon to the maximum you do not have to do only a little wider so it has not registered a little higher in a large reference I would say that if compared to me you make three more reasons and you can easily do it with three balls of yarn while cutting l 4 balls of s if you want a little bigger do not worry with size m first meter in are enough and advance in the fraction is very simple because we go to analyze a long rectangle that came to me about 80 centimeters long and about 55 centimeters high which I then went to sew and then I created a border a simple round of 3 stitches alt and but you can do even more if you want it to close in such a way that you can stop it here with a pin so in this case I advise you to do another 2⁄3 more turns and then I went to create the sleeves in reality I wanted to do something a little wider but since I don’t want to wear over the jackets with a light one I decided not to do too wide they do this width badly video I will also explain how to do a little appellate if you want to wear it with even over jackets heavy having said that I hope that even this simple coccon with really fantastic colors and used a point as you can see very simple that they are double crochets alternating with crosses… I recommend if you say you have made it, send me our photos or on the facebook page of hooking with elsa or on the facebook group and the freedom to hook and knit and if you bought my own yarn through the site or at haberdashery coleti you can tag me at even on instagram where you will find me crocheting with yarns or elsa I do and we as always see you then at the next video tutorial to make our cocoon and I decided to use a new yarn from the miss tricot yarn picasso line this beautiful ball you see here the color I chose is 0 2 and we will work with this yarn with beautiful cucon with the crochet number 10 vivi tanning that I made a sample and here at 14 and chain stitches the processing we are going to do is obtained on multiples of four to which we must then add 2 chains in the actual working I will mount 62 chains that would be a multiple of four plus two chains that I need to have the beginning which at the end and this will allow me to have a rectangle because I will go to work a rectangle about 82 83 cm long so I recommend if you want the cuckoo wider then longer wider starting I say you have to go to increase by 4 chains so if I don’t mount 62 you can mount 34 more or 8 always keep in mind that the processing on messi and west is obtained on much more than four to which you then have to add 2 more chains of the same thing if you want it fight small go to decrease of 4 chains having said that we can go and make our first round which is very simple let’s go to make two chains that are the first treble stitch 1 2 I take the jump yarn the first of mine if among my excuses we are pulling the thread of my 14 chains and I’m going to make a double crochet and now I continue like this going to make a double crochet in each chain for a total of 14 double crochets in my case then continue like this for all my first round a shirt over each chain I finished the first I turn around with the work and I go to do the second round and it goes to make 3 chains that sony has first double crochet then one two three I go to the next shirt and make another double crochet p I make the yarn state 2 treble crochets 1 and 2 within between the second never high the third then jump of treble crochets 12 within between the second and third and from parma treble stitch I take the yarn I go back assault 2 high stitches 12 and again within between the second and the third going from left to right so you never skip act 1 and 2 and the pro between the second and third and I go to do a double crochet and start all over again then I go to make a double crochet over the next shirt a second stitch over the next double crochet I take the yarn jump 2 double crochets within between the second and third and I go to make a double crochet I take the yarn back I jump 2 double crochets 12 within between the second and the third it is again to make a double crochet crossed and start all over again then never high above the next double crochet second double crochet above the next shirt I take the yarn jump three stitches 1 and 2 I enter between the second and the third and go sweaty myth pull a bit of yarn a sweater at high I take the yarn go back I assault two stitches within between the second and third thing my double crochet does cross this is what I have to do for the entire second round I finish the second round and then do a double crochet over the penultimate double crochet and a double crochet enter the third chain which was equivalent to my first double crochet perfect so I also finished the second round third and last round I turn with the work and again to buy a double crochet above me and never high therefore 3 chains that are our first shirt and then we go to make a double crochet over each double crochet in this way 2 and then as I told you on the third round we go to make a double crochet over years in double crochet finished this third round we start all over again then we will go and make a double crochet over each double crochet because if you remember here they made a soprani chain stitch shirt so now we are making a double crochet over og n the t-shirt are really very simple laps child the first the third from everything are the fastest to do the second is the one a little longer to do but still very simple I will repeat it 7 so these three laps until you reach the desired length I want a cuckoo and rules let’s say that a friend with the big big ones is not that I like them very much I prefer them smaller so that I can always put under a leather jacket or a light dap jacket that closes in front of me the cuckoo names as it does especially behind me I will let you know at the end of course how high I got how many times I repeated these three rounds for once we have done that we will go to sew it and then to create shady around a very simple border also in that case and we will then decide whether to also make the sleeves to the monster cocoon or leave it as it was then I worked until I got 55 centimeters then I repeated my emotional for a 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 times then we repeat rip I keep my turns up to a total length of 55 centimeters then now we are going to close in order to create our cuckoo so I took the corners in this way and also on the other side so that now we will go here to create the sleeves I will go to sew from the outside to the inside for about 13 cm both on this side and on this other side then to which I will circle from the outside to the inside for about 13 cm leaving the space open here to pass the arm once this seam is done I will create an edge around the whole neckline so excuse me, so the whole opening and I still have to decide whether to stretch my hands or to do like wrists there are those who then to make it rivals up to well then make the fate of hands that I have yet to decide for now we close here and I repeat I will ask for about 13 cm leaving let’s say a 15 cm of space for the work for the arm and but the edge of our joint appears so I have sewn on both sides so here is the armhole to let my embrace pass and the same thing also on this other side I went to sew at the end I am 14 cm not 13 and I did so the hull for my sleeve now I will go to do a vote in thor all the armhole very simple edge you see here we have the low stitches facing towards this side down this part upwards but we are going to make a round of 1 treble crochets above each treble crochet so I’m hooking here where I have the seam I hook with the thread and go to make the first 3 chain stitches which are my first double crochet and I go to make a double crochet over each double crochet in this way so without decreasing without increasing a shirt over each double crochet throughout the opening of my co with so we continue I wanted to make a double crochet over each double crochet for all the coverage and we will then close here by entering the third chain with a very low stitch I do not know how many turns I will do s and one two or three of course I will let you know and as you turn I will go and track down a shirt only each finished shirt here then I will decide of course I will let you know how many turns I have done I will decide whether or not to make the hands I cast with I made the edge of three laps then 123 laps of treble crochets around the entire opening of my co with and now we can go and make the sleeve I decided to make the sleeve we will not make one too wide or one too narrow but let’s say something in between so if you want then you want to make it wider I will tell you how if you want to make it narrower naturally I will tell you how then mi a cannes cherokee where at the opening of the year the only one under always with the same yarn always with the crochet of number 10 mi I hook under where or the seam and I go to make my first double crochet, however, doing 3 chain stitches so one I got lost on the thread that to stop it then a two three that here is worth as I told him my first double crochet now I don’t have to tighten and the workmanship nor to carla I have to make it normal so I take care, among other things, here you see between the shirt and I’m going to make a double crochet and now I’m going to make a double crochet in each horizontal vertical double crochet in this way so now you see horizontal alt I’m going to make a treble crochet now if you have to widen you must also enter the small hole if you want to do more treble crochets you can never do horizontal treble crochets in the horizontal treble crochet and here in the nano lighthouse hole in yalta and continue like this in such a way to widen a little bit the sleeve severe occur stitching you have done and too tight if you still want a large sleeve but if you need to tighten, then I suggest you do not in this round but in the next one to go for two shirts that together with one-off her every five stitches if you don’t have to tighten too much then the knitting and continue in this way I’m going to make a double crochet in each horizontal stitch because I told you I don’t want to tighten the knitting too much but I don’t want to widen it either and continue to work like this until the end of the round I will tell you how many double crochet or and we could always do a round of but the others then a round of double crochet over each double crochet so very simple also how you do the sleeves I will tell you at the end how many sweaters and how many turns but the top I did to get the sleeve that comes here on the wrist then a total I made a total of 15 double crochets so in each round I find myself 15 magni arte and I made a total of 12 engraved to be able to get to the wrist so I repeat I found myself 15 treble crochets I made 12 treble crochets to get to the end of the wrist now I’m going to do the other sleeve and my account and then will be finished .
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Week 1: Developing and Managing Networked Information Content Summary Session
Cliff Lynch: Well, thank you for joining us today and we’ll be getting started in about 90 seconds or so. Cliff Lynch: Thanks for joining us. Cliff Lynch: We’ll be getting started in another minute or so. Well, Cliff Lynch: Glad you could join us today. Thanks for coming. We’ll get started in Cliff Lynch: About another 30 seconds or so. Cliff Lynch: Okay. I think it’s about time to get started.
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Como Hacer Beats de Reggaeton ft @CrivasOficial
Hello my people write to this side and in today’s video we are going to start a new series here with my friends from BeatStars where I am going to teach you how to make reggaeton from the beginning that you can do to make a good reggaeton, ready? let’s go to go to the computer here well, the first thing you have to know is that for reggaeton we are going to stretch the time normally the time in a reggaeton will be between 80 and 95 of viviane there are times that it can be faster there are times that It may be slower but we are going to be more or less around that area and I would say that a good average or a good starting point could be 88 86 there so the first thing we are going to do is we are going to put here we are going to put it in 86 that is going to be our time to make a reggaeton beat, the next thing we are going to know is that reggaeton always has the same percussion sequence, what varies are the sounds that we put to that sequence so let’s see here which one is the Reggaeton sequence for the kick we have to put it this way the first gray the first red gray the first red has finished for the snr is the fourth gray third robbery fourth gray and third red and here we have the reggaeton sequence you do that with sound and reggaeton and it’s going to sound like reggaeton and we’re going to the test right now there’s nothing because that doesn’t really have any sound right now but we’re going to load it with sounds that are reggaeton for you to see we’re going to listen to them it sounds like reggaeton and if you change that for two different sounds reggaeton is also going to sound reggaeton now really in reggaeton there are many times that we also make sounds like this from scratch but there are also many times that loops are used and here I have a few loops for you to see how It may be in this case you are simply going to create a new channel because of the slide sex or the slide ser and slideshare is here and then it would be simply adding the loop to that channel of the strange p For example we have this one and we can put it here we are going to erase everything else and we have this there you see that it has a slightly different variation we are going to look back so that you see that this variation we are going to eliminate it for now we come back here and that Variation that it has is that it has a stick that would be that sound we put it here and that would be good, we had to adjust the volume and it also had a role that that also had a characteristic sound reggaeton we do not have for example we put it here and we put that in the third red from the end we lower the volume is also the super super super super classic sound of reggaeton ok now let’s go with the melody really the melody in reggaeton is super simple and in fact if you complicate a lot with the melody it may not be like that with such a reggaeton sound we are going to put for example we are going to follow a piano here in the nexus and we are going to choose for example that we are going to lower the volume a little and we are going to choose the chords It is for example they can be all minor and G minor an easy way to do it for example if we want a reggaeton to sound more dance style because in fact we are going to do something we are going to change the sounds this same sequence but we are going to change it for sounds from dancehall once to put that click here and now we are going to find a snr to put that one and we are going to remove these two sounds because those sounds even more of the classic reggaeton something that we are going to add is a hi hat for example s we are going to put it simply there every two steps and now we are going to make the chords that we live remaining and we are only going to give it here to record 321 i i ok that we are going to quantify them in reggaeton many times good idea with chalk there are people who prefer not to count to there sound that I do not quantum but really in most yes yes I leave it with chalk do so let’s put everything here and something to make it sound like a little more interesting that a lot is being done in reggaeton now it is to filter the sound so we are going to activate the filter we are going to lower the cut off a little here we already have a reggaeton base we are going to make the bass the bass almost always I do it with the 3 x here we are going to set this to 0 this in 0 and the bass is super simple we are simply going to make the tonic of the melody we take out what in this case we did we are going to open here it was 2 minor and G minor so the bass would be at 2 and in G which would be the tonic and we put here although I ah ah and there we have a reggaeton style we are going to turn this into another reggaeton style a little differently, the first thing we are going to do is change the sounds for another sound that is a little more classic reggaeton maybe we will change the kick for this and we will change the snet and for this we will see we will remove the piano ok so we are already sounding a little different, right now we will change the sound of the piano for a sound that is more like blues so I’m going to teach how to make another est Different reggaeton style, what we can see, for example, we are going to modernize it a little more with the melody, what I am going to do is that I am going to turn it here into how we were going to erase it on a tiny line and I am going to put it instead of putting it on start putting it here in the third step and the first’ll put this note and here too the notes to the tonic tonic tonic chord chords and pam pam pam pam will put again this so and crisp crisp crisp and now we will add a little uneasiness because this reggaeton style is still a good idea that we add a seasoning mentioned but also complex the reggaeton sounds very good if you add looks so we are going to look for another plug that same but we are going to put a lot backwards more to see everything well And I remember that reggaeton now has it, it sounds nice if you filter the sound it sounds nice now let’s see with this we can make it a melody but melody with the sounds as well chopped as they are as a tap that sounds to plug the do chords and the other is the sun so let’s see what we will do will that ia inventory going to do something like that and then if we have to modify modify yi there I’m wrong a little bit at the end person anything because select it and quantum mos e and that will put more river still going to take the wrong side of the frequency display filter that does a bit of background and and and we will add some sonidito the more so go marking and that’s a nice one and that sounds nice if we play it as in seeing it play like that we play it and that we are going to lower the volume a little bit what I did was I play it all together the sounds the marking accord so I already played it like doing that it goes away so then it slows down and that’s what I love how it sounds and we can also add another sound to that as well as a plus that in reggaeton that plug sound sounds super super good and what I would add from here would be simply sound as makes to mark the background chord or maybe something like this and that background sound and that’s what we are going to see that the quantum moss we are going to put it here we are going to make all the volume the same the first one almost does not sound so I I am simply going to remove it because it is competing with this sound and what are we going to do and I think that with this base and we can maintain it, I knew from here that I would add a few vowels to it, for example here there are three sounds, three vowels that I I added let’s listen to it is the first is this in this of another and the third is are some consequences and that we are going to cut only the bit that we want and it is simply here the link we are going to cut it because we are not going to be only with that initial part So it would be like this, let’s go in a little bit and that we can put it here at the beginning in the eyes of people we can put it maybe there but we are going to make it start from the beginning and we go a little bit the volume this way Well, we are going to cut only the one at the beginning and we remove a little here we have times and we put it perhaps where here from there we can move here to the play list which is where we are going to start aligning it.
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Hemp: A historical crop making a modern comeback
Hi, my name is Katelyn Kesheimer, and I’m an extension entomologist with Auburn University and the Alabama Cooperative Extension System. Today’s webinar, however, as much as I’d like to, I’m not even going to mention insects, but rather focus on some background history of hemp and how its uses have changed over thousands of years. And this is really part of an effort to put out some more information on this seemingly new crop that’s been around since the beginning of agriculture, but is still really misunderstood, both on a basic level of what the plant is, how it fits into other plant taxonomy, what’s it’s used for, and also on a deeper research-based level of how do we grow this crop the best way it can be grown, especially here in Alabama?
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Unboxing the BRAND NEW BATSON "ALTER EGO" Collection Hoodie...
yo do you guys ever like sneeze and like and then pull yourself a little bit welcome to the channel my people today we have something a little bit different a little bit unique a little bit very very very specific to this channel right here you’re not gonna get this specific content on this specific video anywhere else all right i’m bringing originality to so you guys have seen it you guys have seen the thumbnail you know what we’re doing today we are unboxing my brand new hoodie the batson 2020 alter ego one of two collection this is a mouthful but we’ll get into that i wanted to make a video that lives for a very very long time because i wanted to showcase to you what you’re actually gonna be getting on the day when or if when you purchase your very own batson hoodie for yourself now before we get into that i want to say a couple of things so you know just listen since i was very young i’m not very young for a couple of years now for many years now i’ve wanted to own my own clothing line and my own brand my own garments that i can wear not because i feel like anything else i didn’t really like any of the other clothing so i just made my own i’ve just always really been into fashion like you can literally see over here i have a custom built wardrobe where i can show off my shoes my hoodies and my jackets because i like clothes a lot and i’m a very artistic and creative person myself so i thought why don’t i just make it you know what i mean why don’t i just put two and two together make clothes feed my creative side and you know just just make a sick product that other people can wear and since i started making hoodies this would have been my second one now i dropped one in september that was a huge creative outlet for me because i could basically just design a product not just for people to see on like instagram or something like people can actually wear this and it’s like a sick experience for everyone i get to experience people enjoying a product that i put my heart and soul into and people get to enjoy and a product that i put my heart and soul into basically i love making clothes because it just feeds the creative side of me and that is why i’m dropping a second hoodie this year which is why you’re watching this video right now and a lot of people are confused like well yo why is it called the alter ego collection yo why is it one of two yeah why is it why is it blue many questions will be answered in this video because i’m going to explain the backstory uh the forward story the app story and the down story of this hoodie right here well before we get into the unboxing i’m going to take you guys back a little bit so this toy that i’ve got my arm this is a character called eli all right and he’s sort of like my alter ego he’s the crazy side of me the side that does what he wants blah blah blah blah blah and that is why this collection is called the alte ego collection because i feel like it is a separate entity of like myself which is eli the guy that’s on my arm and you guys might have noticed if you follow me on instagram you’ve seen the designs you can see that this is alter ego collection one of two and that is because next year there is another hoodie drop in which is called the autoego collection two of two and that’s gonna be bones so we have eli and we have bones two characters that i’ve made up in my head that i feel like deliver some sort of story and could deliver some sort of character maybe a few few maybe later down the line you know maybe they could be like be put into a cartoon or something who knows but i feel like it’s a cool concept to have two characters both hoodies and they’re both are basically going to be the exact same design uh eli is obviously a zombie and bones is obviously a skeleton but yeah that’s the story behind the whole alter ego and the one of two and the two of two collections so bones will be dropping on maybe like january or march next year i don’t know but yeah for now we’re going to be unboxing the eli side of the alter ego collection so let’s just get into it this is the exact package you will be receiving on the day and by the way you can get this for christmas any moms or dads watching this out there that wants to get this for that kid feel free premium shipping it will get to you before christmas in time for basically for you to give it to your kid on christmas these are drop in on december the 16th right in time for you to order one for christmas and is the perfect christmas present i guess you know if you’re struggling what to get get someone at batson hoodie just do it yeah this is the exact package that you will be unboxing on christmas day if you get for christmas or if you just want to buy one this is the this is the package you’ll be getting it’s got eli’s face on the front and then obviously on the back it’s got your shipping address 21 suck your mum so let’s get into the actual unboxing shall we so right off the bat there is much more than just a hoodie this hoodie comes with a custom keychain for you guys to put on whatever you want if you have a nipple piercing that will more than likely fit through your nipple piercing it’s just a cool little custom keychain it’s fabric is like very very durable this isn’t no plastic this is like you wouldn’t be able to tear this with two forklifts driving away from each other with steel rope attached to it it’s a very very very durable keychain you can basically put on anything it’s lightweight it’s slim it’s small and it’s basically a really cool design so yeah this is the custom keychain that is included in the price you pay and in the package that you get you don’t have to pay any extra you don’t have to select any other options this keychain just comes with the hoodie by default we also have something else this is the colored version of the tattoo that is on my arm this is eli in all of his glory now if you’ve been following my channel for a while you would have seen that he’s wearing sort of like a version of the sketch hoodie that dropped in september some blue ripped jeans some green shoes and he’s also got pink skin and a hat because you know hats are cool also the only reason i’m wearing a hat is because this mop on my head and don’t worry i’m shaving my head for a video soon so stay tuned for that but yeah this is eli this is the sticker that is gonna be coming in your package as well you get sticker on the keychain you support little you can put this on your laptop you can put this on your phone you can put this on whatever you want it’s a sticker it’s a really really high quality sticker as well like listen yeah premium quality suck now let’s get into the juicy stuff the thing that everyone is here for the actual hoodie oh it’s [ __ ] back to front boom this is the hoodie this is the hoodie it is a blue hoodie with a pink sort of embroidery on the front yes this is embroidery listen this is embroidery guys this is embroidered on the hoodie this is no print this is high quality embroidered onto the hoodie this is not coming off ever and as we unfold the mysteries grow i’m gonna put it on actually before i put it on let me show you this the back print a design that i worked very hard on design that i think is sick and fitting for the the sort of aura of the drop meant to be a little bit crazy it’s meant to be colorful and that’s basically what it is it says at the bottom i don’t know if you guys wouldn’t be able to read that product of batson clothing limited alter ego collection hoodie one of two this is a very very collectible item like i don’t think my hair is a mess right now this is a very very highly collectible item that basically under a hundred people will own and this stock is limited when i tell you it’s limited all right you need to be there on december 16th on shopbacksun.
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HOW TO LOVE the AUTHENTIC SELF (The need to be liked by others)
how important is it to be liked do you work hard on your friendships going out of your way to always be there for the people sacrificing your own authentic self in the need to be liked by others at the end of the day we all want to be liked it’s human nature and the need to belong and to connect is considered a universal need and even though we should know better and not let other people’s opinions affect us you’d be hard-pressed to find someone who genuinely does not care if people like them or not even if that’s what they tell you so stay watching as today let’s talk about the need to be liked and what happens when we try too hard to please other people if you’re new to my channel i’m sue blackhurst and i bring the world of social psychology into everyday language i post videos every monday and every thursday so if you want to understand why people behave the way they do by subscribing to my channel you’ll get weekly insights into the fascinating world of human behavior 2020 has been a huge year of self-awareness we’ve all had to deal with our family our finances and our home life and life after lockdown is going to bring yet another new set of challenges so if you want to be ready to face the future with a sense of purpose and a positive mindset then there is no better time to join the other women on my overcome obstacles and build mental strength training programme you can go at your own pace and spend as little or as much time each day as i guide you through daily hints and tips and motivational affirmations you’ll get all the tools you need to prevent self- sabotaging your life and you’ll get it all the less than the cost of a haircut which we can’t do that at the moment so remember your life will not change until you make the changes so follow the link in the description box below the desire for approval appreciation and acceptance by others is a normal part of human behavior and although some people say that they couldn’t care less what other people think of them everybody wants to be liked by someone on some level as being liked means you’re feeling accepted and feeling accepted means you’re part of something it’s like being part of a tribe it doesn’t matter what the situation you may be sat in a meeting or on a night out with friends or part of a sports team you may even be tucking the children into bed at night or anxiously waiting for them to come home late at night but we will at some stage have thought to ourselves do they like me there is however a distinct difference between wanting to be liked and needing to be liked for most people not being liked is upsetting and can cause certain situations and gatherings uncomfortable but they get over it and move on because they have this inner confidence to not let it bother them or they work hard to find out the reasons why they may be pushing people away and work hard at building the connections for others however the moment there is a possibility that somebody might not see them as their new best friend it becomes their mission to win them over as they need to be liked and the idea that someone doesn’t like them is personal knowing that someone doesn’t like them can cause anxiety and in severe cases depression as it’s a feeling that gets them in the pit of their stomach as they struggle to comprehend why without having consciously done anything to upset or hurt the other person they just can’t accept it and so in a desperate attempt to gain their approval they go out of their way to gain their attention but there doesn’t need to be a reason it’s not as if you need to actually say or do anything because when you know that you’re either not liked or not welcome it’s rejection and exclusion and that makes us feel really bad so here’s the reality you can place 50 people in a room and you will find somebody that you just don’t like place 20 people in a room and yes again there will still be at least one person you don’t warm to i’d even say it would happen with just 10 people and that doesn’t make you or them a bad person it’s just the fact that we don’t all like the same person or the same things and that’s okay so here i go with my let’s explain it in another way so more than likely you’ve been to a restaurant with a group of friends and you all end up choosing something different off the menu or if you’re like me asking for a variation from what’s already on the menu my son’s favourite is pizza without cheese which is basically tomato garlic bread with toppings and i think my best restaurant request was crispy duck without the duck i remember the waitress taking the order and saying i cannot wait to tell the chef thats one crispy duck without the duck please anyway what is that point well my point is that not only do we all like different foods when we do like the same foods we like it cooked or prepared to our own liking even making toast in our house needs individual colour charts but whatever we like or dislike there is no right or wrong we only have difference based on personal taste and opinion and spending time with people is no different just because that one person’s loud and incessant talking drives one person mad somebody else will see them as the life and soul so not everyone is going to like you and that’s okay but what they do to let you know is a different set of motives and behaviours that i’ll save for another video but for now if you know somebody doesn’t like you for no significant or justifiable reason then just see yourself as cheese on somebody’s pizza and that being liked or not liked is all a matter of taste and we all have different tastes it’s easy to find out what foods we like and don’t like and generally no offences caused well i don’t think the duck was particularly offended when i said i didn’t like it but it’s a very different situation when it’s ourselves being put to the taste test and one way to think about who you are and how you are perceived by others is to think of the rorschach test you may know it as the ink block test if you’re not familiar with this test involves showing somebody an abstract ink blocked image and asking them what they see in order to learn more about their psychological state the rorschach test isn’t about getting the answer right or wrong it’s about looking at how that person views the world and what’s really interesting is how different it can be so have a look at this image as an example and tell me what do you see i’ll give you a few seconds to think what it is to you what does this image portray and what can you see within the inkblot some people see a bat a moth or a butterfly others may see a figure in the middle maybe with wings stretching out or reaching up others may see an alien face or a mask the psychoanalysis behind this test is a whole different subject and not one for now but the point is that the same image is seen very differently by different people with no one interpretation being the right one so how can this help you learn more about yourself well just as everyone sees something different in the ink blot everyone will see something different when they look at you so if you can learn to look at yourself and try to see all the possible images and perceptions that others could see you can start to work on all the areas that attract people it’s not about changing who you are or what you do it’s about learning what works and the impact and what aspects create the greatest engagement with others but just like cheese on a pizza the qualities that make you likeable to one person are the same qualities that make you unlikable to another and that means that it’s impossible to be liked by everybody research has found that when people feel that they are not liked by others they begin to develop their false selves and not their real selves your real self is developed from the roles that you play in life and these start from baby child adult parent husband wife brother sister son daughter etc etc and extends to caring loving touching feeling roles but the world that we are now all being encouraged to live in encourages us all to develop our false self where our interests are in our image wealth status and recognition i find it so sad when girls post pictures on social media and all the comments read wow you’re gorgeous stunning sexy etc when what we should really be telling these young girls is that they are an amazing person they’re funny they’re kind they’re creative it’s all about what and not who they are and we are feeding the wrong self the main difference is that the false self is very external and cares about how it’s seen by others whilst the real self is very internal and cares about the quality of relationships in other words the real self cares about the taste of the wine whilst the false self cares about the label when life isn’t going to plan this is where it’s so easy to get it wrong because we’ll go out and have a new haircut or buy new clothes or even post more images of our lives to gain those vanity metrics on how many likes we get but here’s the revelation because the more we bolster the false itself the more we tend to drive people further away in other words rather than changing the taste of the wine we stick on a fancy new label you see rather than being seen as true and genuine you work so hard with the person that you think people want you to be but in the process you compromise your authentic and real self gradually becoming less honest less natural and less you it’s not intentional or necessarily the reality of what you’re thinking or consciously trying to do but this shift in human behaviour means that the more you hustle for approval the less other people feel at ease with you they sense something counterfeit in your responses they have trouble trusting you and in extreme cases they may even begin to feel manipulated and resentful making a relationship with you exhausting people feel weighed down by approval seekers as their neediness is an energy drain and sooner or later they start to avoid you as the very thing you’re working so hard for friendships and close relationships gets you the opposite leaving you feeling confused and hurt sadly there is no quick fix for those who feel the need to be liked rather than simply the desire to be liked finding a healthy balance between creating friendships and getting approval and the feelings of inadequacy and worthlessness when someone doesn’t like you takes time but the starting place is always the same as the first thing you need to do is accept that not everyone has to like everyone but you must start by liking yourself our need to be light can keep us from doing things that matter to us and trying new things in fear of what other people will think in essence the need to be like stops us from finding out who we really are and living our lives as our own true selves there will always be people who for no specific reason just don’t like you very much and the more that you keep trying to please them by agreeing to do things that you don’t want to do just to get them to like you the more you push them away so next time you have an idea whether it’s at home or at work step back and ask yourself who am i really doing this for and if you’re doing it to impress someone else by just mentally shifting your drive from the false to the real self will help you to build much better relationships don’t forget to download my free book on how to reframe self-critical thinking the link is in the description box below and if you want to take your learning deeper than my youtube videos then take a look at my 20 day overcome obstacles and build mental strength training programme it’s packed full of helpful tools and tips to get you where you want to be thank you so much for watching don’t forget to like and share the video and do leave me a comment with your thoughts oh and if you’ve not already subscribed then this is the time to do it do take care and i will see you next time .
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Camping For Rare Sneakers at Nike Outlet Factory Store Grand Opening
what’s up with you guys how you doing how you been if you did not know by now my name is dj and this is the dna show today we are sitting in front of the nike factory store they have a grand opening tomorrow but they’re doing a soft release today there’s already people camping out we came by about 12 hours ago last night and there were people already in line apparently there’s a lot of stuff happening people moving around we got chairs and so many different situations the security already coming out so stick around let’s see what’s gonna happen hopefully we can get some shoes i heard they got some dope stuff inside i’m looking forward to copying some stuff and showing you guys so let’s go ahead and get into it so everybody was just crowded in the front now they moved everybody over here to the side nobody’s in line that’s why we’re asking you guys to back up it starts from the back yes and obviously a lot of these people that have not been here and all these people that were thinking all these people that were thinking that they were holding the spot in line we’re not holding the spot so you guys are just backed up thinking you’re going to get them first let’s know i’ve been to many releases over the years right and this is typically what happens everybody starts to crowd around this what happens they give them a time slot and they say okay you can go over here at this time and people think they have a designated spot because they came earlier there have been people that literally been camped out here since 10 or 1 in the morning late late late at night and they’re not gonna be able to reserve that spot so it’s like fair game right now and everybody’s like waiting to see what’s happening everybody starts crowding up and the closer and closer it gets to nine o’clock it’s gonna be more people and it’s gonna just get worse and worse and then people start pushing and shoving and all that different stuff so we’re gonna see what happens obviously i want to get a good spot in line i got here really really early to show you guys what’s going on and uh you know hopefully hope we can get some so stay tuned how you feeling i’m worried bro you worry trying to get us on this line i feel you i feel you how you feeling i just woke up i’m good man i think i’m a secure spot let’s see what we can get today so it is currently 8 15 right now and we’re gonna go see how long this line is now and then we’ll check back probably in like 30 minutes to see where the lines have been but as of right now kind of distancing but more people are crowded in the front than they are back here so the line may look a little bit longer but we will see so we’re currently on the second block right now and we still got people going it doesn’t go to the end of this block but we got a good amount of people down here i don’t know if you can see down there right there the line is definitely going to grow people keeping their distance which is solid over here but at the front everybody’s really really close to each other how long y’all been here it’s 9 45 p.
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Psychonomics 2020 - Power Simulations for Linguistic Data
Hi everyone, and welcome to our talk on power simulations for cognitive studies. My name is Erin Buchanan, and I’ll be presenting work today that was supported by my colleagues KD, Nick, Jack, and Maria. There’s a long-standing tradition in the cognitive sciences to use controlled stimuli in our experimental studies. For example, the Snodgrass and Vanderwart line drawings have been cited over 6000 times and are a very common set of stimuli for picture naming studies.
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am i doing VLOGMAS this year?
(sighs) Hello, everybody. (chuckles) Welcome back to another vlog. It is eviction day for Donald Trump today, which is wonderful. It’s Saturday, and I’m actually getting ready because, although it may seem like I was just out of town to you, that was actually two, over two weeks ago that we went out of town, and now we are actually going out of town again. We are going up to Prescott, Arizona for my mom’s birthday.